Thursday, August 1, 2013

What I Learned This July



 What a crazy busy month! But what a great ending for our players and one of my favorite people “Coach Al”! I am so happy for our kids and the organization. This is definitely a month to remember. I learned a lot of things this month but I will condense into the five biggest for me.

1.     1. I am so happy with our family choice. I had a blast being back on the sideline coaching these Cy Fair kids. With so much talent on the floor I really got a chance (with the help of the other coaches) to strategize and really learn as we went. I forgot how much fun grassroots basketball really is!

2.     2. There is no way to make everyone happy. In general no matter what you do someone won’t like it. And in most situations even the “right” thing won’t make everyone happy. Making people happy can’t be your number one goal in life…. If it is you will almost always fail. Another one of those lessons basketball teaches us.

3.     3. Players make coaches look smart. I have always known this, but this month proved it. My theory has always been that coaches can’t win games they can only set players up to be successful, but coaches can lose games. (I have sure done that once or twice) With all the talent that we had this month it sure made this easier. These kids made us look good and took advantage of every situation.




4.      4. It’s about people. With players it is not just about talent it’s also about the quality of the people. What a great group of selfless kids. I am not pretending there were no challenges and everything was sunshine and roses, but I am thankful for these kids and how they accepted a variety of roles throughout the summer to help us reach the level we did.  I am so thankful for DeMya (yes I spelled it right if she happens to read this ;)) and Earl. We were also led from the top by a person who stayed calm no matter what the storm and infused calmness into the rest of us. While it has taken time for him to get this top prize, it has only taken that long because he has gone about it the right way. He has stayed the course and put people first and that made Tuesday even more special. In the end this great group will always have a special place in my heart. It would not have been so special if it hadn’t happened with special people!

To go along with this theme thank you to everyone who reached out to congratulate us. None of the phone calls and texts meant more then those from former players!



5.     5. Last but not least it is about the team “Buy In”. Being bought in for the betterment of the team is what pushes you over the top. We had this summer; buy my calculations, potentially 6 All-Americans spread out through 4 classes. That’s a lot of talent and a lot of potential go to players. This group was willing to go with the hot hand, and to play together. Players scored less then they “could have” to take the smart shot, or focused on “blue collar” plays to help push us over the top in some tough, tight games. In the end that’s why we won. Sure we had talent, but the willingness to work together and focus on the little things and the team goal allowed us to get there.  That wasn’t just the players, we had four people on the bench all-capable of coaching this team and we were able to work together without egos and with open, honest communication which allowed us to work together to lead our players. As a coach there are certain years and teams that just click and get it, and this group did. I am thankful that this type of attitude and work ethic was rewarded.



Now it is time to turn the page. The kids go back to school soon, and the coaches return to work. Our 2014 players played their last club game and are all on to bigger and better things including free educations! We are all getting back to the “real world” but we have some memories that we will carry with us! Together we will always be National Champions! 




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